Dear self,

“男生和喜欢的女生在一起之后感情会慢慢淡掉吗？”

You seem to have forgotten the rule you have set for yourself a few months ago so I'm here to remind you again. "Don't be greedy, be contented with what you have now or else, you will find yourself left with nothing in the end." Don't take things for granted because no one owes you anything. So, when you receive (something) from others, make sure you appreciate them (whether you like it or not). Never ask for more. Do not get jealous or envy of others. Do not complain. Never think that you are the most unfortunate person because clearly, you are not. What's yours is yours, do not force. Do not expect from others, expect from yourself. Do not calculate, you can never finish calculating and trying to make things fair is just making your life difficult. If you have the ability to help others, do it and do not hesitate or think of what advantages you can gain from doing so. Open you heart, mind and soul. Do not judge or try to take control. Because you are in no position to. Do not look down on any people because nobody deserve to be looked down on. Do not blame others for any down-slopes in your life. Do not talk/think bad about others (joking not included ^^). No one is perfect, everyone has their strength and flaws. Learn to accept. That would make your life so much happier. Do things that make yourself and everyone happy. You only live once and life is short, why waste it? Bad things happen, but remember, not only to you. Do not let your negative thinking/feelings affect others. They don't deserve shits from you. You may not be living a perfect life. You may not be smart, pretty or rich. You may not have nice figure, thousands or millions of friends, perfect relationship, rich parents, smart brother, good academic results and so on so forth. BUT this does not mean that you are the stupid-est, ugliest nor the poorest. You have a healthy body, a few closeloveablefunnyidioticcrazynoisyirritatingannoyingbimboticnarcissistic-and-the-list-continues friends , a lover who never fails to make you love him moreandmore (as if it's limitless), parents who would scold/hits/nag you because they care, a brother who do bad things with you and keep them from parents or speak up for you when you're being scolded, academic results...JustDoYourBest. Hahaha. Whatever it is, do no evil; speak no evil; think no evil. 

I sound like some holy person omg. LOL

But anyway, it's easier to be said than done. 

I can come up with all these nonsense but they are just pure words and will be meaningless if I couldn't do them. 

Annyeong :)

P.S: This is just a note to myself and what I think.